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CrossDressing

Hey all,

I would like to apologise for my absence from CrossDressing and posting on this blog. I do still have pictures to post from BWBG and I still love dressing. I’ve just had no desire to dress for quite a while now, and I do not know when I will next dress in my own clothes or home.

Ever since visiting Cindy the first time I have thought differently about CrossDressing, and I’m glad. It’s made me realise that I want more out of it, I’ve been taking pictures hidden in the bathroom for too long. I was constantly buying new clothes, wigs and shoes to keep things ‘new’, this is not what I want from my hobby. Especially as every item I buy doesn’t even get worn for even an hour a month, it just doesn’t seem worth it. The most ‘at home’ I have ever felt with my hobby has been with Cindy, as it is an accepting environment. However back at home I’m hiding in the bathroom trying to get as many pictures as possible late at night, which just isn’t enjoyable for me anymore. I want more from my dressing however I don’t know what that is, I’ve thought about the idea of modelling ever since Cindy said I would be great at it. That put a huge smile on my face and is probably the happiest moment I’ve ever experienced whilst dressed.

It was also amazing being dressed and having a social aspect to it, at home it is very isolating and the only social aspect I get is online and mostly anonymous. Most of it is also simply complements on how I look dressed up, and not directly about me as a person. When I dress up I’m expressing my natural femininity as an image, my feminine personality. It’s not a form of escapism or another persona, it’s another image of who I am. It’s not another persona or a way of escaping for me, it’s a way of expressing more of who I am. Plus I really love 'women’s’ fashion.

However the fact that fashion is 'mens’ and 'women’s’ really gets to me in a way, it’s more accepting for a woman to be masculine than it is for a man to be feminine. I also think that clothing should be masculine or feminine, so individuals can wear what suits their personality, not clothing simply assigned to their gender.

I do know I would like my CrossDressing to be a lot more social and known. Due to the way it is viewed by society it cannot be simply told to someone like it could most other hobbies. It is best told one-to-one and even that is hard, you cannot be aware of how they will respond. It isn’t simply accepted or disliked. If it is accepted, they may not even ask what dressing means to you or any other questions like that as the fact that society drives you to approach it one-on-one makes it seem that your sensitive about it therefore they do not want to ask anything that may be too personal. This means you have to take time to explain your personal reasons behind it. It may also simply be a result of prejudice, and they may think they know all the answers already where in actual fact it’s unique to every individual.

Even when I want to talk about it with someone who knows, I have to wait until I can talk to them privately to avoid being overheard by others. So even though they know and I’m with them, I’m still hiding it. I do not feel safe talking about it with someone who knows in a public place, which is still very isolating.

It is said to “be the change you want to see in the world” however with societies views on CrossDressing I really have no idea what could even be done or how to even start. As it’s forcing most CrossDressers to stay in the dark, therefore it is not known or understood by most people. If it was seen more often, it would likely reduce prejudice etc. the only hope I can see currently is that some Transgender individuals are beginning to be accepted. This is not the same at CrossDressing but it does give hope that society may one day understand it and accept it.

It’s so in the dark that I myself as far as I’m aware haven’t even seen another crossdresser in person, ever. Just myself. CrossDressers are a lot more known online, however I myself am afraid to step outside dressed up or even tell others about it in a public place. I always worry it could easily cause a scene. I wish a lot more people would see it as interesting like quite a few that I have told do and not something to be concerned about, like it needs 'fixing’ or is some kind of personality disorder.

The fact that I cannot even affect how it is viewed within my own home or family gives me no hope whatsoever that society as a whole will change its views anytime soon. Which I hate, as I do not want to continue hiding it and feeling isolated. I do not agree that it is something that should be, however we’re driven to hide it no matter what we believe. This also means I’d have difficulty going out dressed up as I couldn’t even walk out the door whilst dressed up without letting anyone know I would be doing so.

I have no reason to go out dressed up but if I ever did I don’t know how I’d go about it due to this. I’d also be worried that being dressed up outside may cause a scene or make others feel uncomfortable if they know I’m CrossDressed and do not accept it. I also worry that some may act out irrationally because they see it as 'abnormal’ and others may frown upon it because of their religion or culture.

If anyone who knows me personally has read this, please contact me. Talk with me about it, I wish so much for it to be more social and to not feel isolated offline. Due to the fact that nobody does, I find it hard to talk about it even with people that know because I have no idea how they feel about it and how interested they really are.

If anyone else who has read this feels as I do, understands or has any thoughts. I’d love to talk, on here or on Kik (PinchedSlinky).

Thank you all for making me feel welcome here <3

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pslinky95 asked:

Hey Dankoo, I was just wondering if you got my request last weekend... if you just haven't gotten to it yet that's ok I just wanted to be sure it sent properly. If you haven't recieved it then I can send it again, thanks.

dankootheartist-deactivated2016 answered:

i did , i did , pffft ….among all the hate mails it is there, so i noticed it , and how can i not send a birthday gift for a cute eye candy like you ? lol 

but you owe me sooooo much …i am really tired and these 2 days been heavy , so i really busted my hand drawing this ….

happy early b-day sweety = 

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no need for dark colors in this fashion …its a birthday ..so it has to be a bit baldy …sexy …and so much femme fatal ! 

i hope u like it.

enjoy dear 

lucy-cd

Dankoo | /ArTZee/

Special thanks again to Dankoo for yet another amazing piece of artwork, I love it! The first art was simple and elegant where as this is bold, elaborate and in a good way quite extravagant. Also Dankoo, apologies for the busted hand. Thanks Again! love it <3

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pslinky95 asked:

Hey Dankoo, I love the style and creativity of your art. You've actually inspired me to start drawing again, also I'm looking forward to seeing your drawing of me. I've done a few artworks on Paint myself, how long roughly does each drawing take you?

dankootheartist-deactivated2016 answered:

when a passionate soul …tells me that i inspired them to do anything …i am moved ! 

thanks ….this is what my art and posts are all about .

an art would usually take about 10-30 minutes .

but the thing is = you should see me as i do so ! ….i am all stressed …my hand is moving all over the space and my eyes are like sasuki’s eyes when he fought the 8 tails …like really ..i look like im having some sort of a break down …art stress me and sooth me at same time .

anyway ….enjoy dear = 

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you did say that you are extremely passionate about dressing …so i tried my best to come up with a neat fashionable theme .

lucy-cd

Dankoo | /ArTZee/

Special thanks to Dankoo for this amazing piece of artwork, I love it so much… my jaw dropped when I saw it. It is indeed very fasionable… also Dankoo, how you say you look when your drawing reminds me very much of Isaac Mendez from Heroes. Thanks Again! love it <3

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It’s been a while since I last dressed-up but now I have and I’ll be uploading the pictures over the next few days. Thought I’d start with this outfit as it’s incredibly adorable & cute! <3

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