Lucy & CrossDressing <3
Hey everyone! After a long time I have returned, sorry for disappearing so suddenly. I had a lot of thoughts on my mind that I couldn’t solve so I decided it was best for me to cut myself off from CrossDressing and take some time out. I did want to post saying I’d be taking a break but I had no reason as to why and I didn’t know how long I’d be away. I cut myself off so suddenly that I still have a few sets of pictures I didn’t upload (I’ll upload them soon <3). So for those of you who worried about my disappearance, I’d like you to know I’m sorry. Anyway, after a long break and no CrossDressing for months I have decided to give my thoughts another shot and I’m pretty sure I’ve now worked it all out.
Hopefully I’ll dress up again sometime in the next week but I can’t say for sure when I will, but next time I dress up I will try my best to look great and put together some great new outfits! I have a few in mind already <3
I will also do my best to work through some of my Tumblr inbox and be a little more active on Kik for those of you who like to chat with me.
The main problem I have with CrossDressing as a hobby is the fact that other people, seemingly don’t view it in the same way (as a hobby). Cross-Dressing isn’t like any other hobby where you can just suddenly bring it up in a conversation with someone and show them a picture like you can with other hobbies, in my mind I don’t know why we shouldn’t be able to do this. That’s just how it is because of social norms etc. we all have to hide it because we believe most people don’t accept it or just think it’s weird. Yes, some people do but there are lots of people who are actually interested or just don’t mind. Most people are happy with it so long as you enjoy it. This all makes it incredibly difficult to meet others with similar interests anywhere other than online.
If you are interested in Cross-Dressing or Cross-Dress yourself, how many times have you walked through a crowd and wondered how many people do it too or may be too afraid to tell people they’re interested. There ultimately is really no easy way for us to know, which makes Cross-Dressing quite isolated in a way as a hobby. As the only place we can openly talk about it is online, if you bring it up in a conversation the person you’re talking to may not react well so it’s a risk we never want to take. As a result, we stay silent and act ‘normal’ even if Cross-Dressing is something we are incredibly passionate about. I have thought about all this many times, I have also thought about yelling “I Cross-Dress” in a crowd. Even if I did do this, people who are interested may still be too afraid to approach.